That’s It, We’re Relationship Shaming
Typically, it’s not polite to comment on other people’s relationships. However, some people are so outrageous when it comes to their love lives that we can’t help but gossip. These people took things in their relationships way too far, and if we don’t shame them, who will? They’re the exact opposite of everything you should be when dating, and make us cringe with every move they make. Some treat their partners more like a parent and make them do their chores. Others flat out cheat, or flirt with other people in front of their partners. If you haven’t been in a relationship, take note of these things so you know NOT to do them.
Do I Look Like The Maid?
We all have differing opinions on what the best day of the week is. However, we can all agree that the worst day is Monday. You’ve just come out of a relaxing weekend, and you have a full 5 days of work or school ahead of you. There are ways to make your Mondays easier, like ordering in from your favorite restaurant.
On the other hand, this boyfriend seems hellbent on making his partner’s life harder. He makes a point of cooking an elaborate dinner and then leaving the mess behind while he goes to play his Monday game of chess. We can’t imagine how frustrating it is for this person to have to choose between cleaning his mess, or staring at it until he gets home.
Who Do You Love More?
It’s normal to change once you enter adulthood. You’ll find yourself supporting or doing things you never thought you would have. A lot of adults turn to veganism, and proceed to spend all waking hours trying to convert others to their lifestyle.
The thing they fail to realize is that other people are just as passionate about their lifestyles, and no one is more correct than another. We can’t imagine how terrible this girlfriend must feel having to choose between her cultural foods and her partner. If someone is going to guilt-trip you and threaten to leave you over this, they weren’t that good of a partner, to begin with.
Make Up Your Mind
Deciding who you want to date is difficult. Before becoming official, a lot of couples will have a sort of trial period that can last anywhere from a few weeks to a few months. In this time, you’ll see if your lifestyles are compatible, or if you’re better off as friends. The key to dating is being honest with one another.
This girl said she didn’t want a gift, so she shouldn’t have expected anything at all. He was still nice enough to get something, and she found a way to complain. If you’re going to be this picky, you shouldn’t expect to find someone anytime soon unless they’re an absolute doormat.
You’ll Be Hearing From My Lawyer
We thought jealousy issues wouldn’t follow us past elementary school, but we were sadly mistaken. It turns out anyone can be jealous of you, including your boyfriend. In our minds, a partner is supposed to lift you up, not tear you down. Some people are so blindly in love, they don’t even realize that their partner is trying to sabotage them.
Good thing this user is smart and took notice of what their boyfriend was doing. He just couldn’t let this go and resorted to stealing from her. Once again, this person was on it and noticed right away. We hope he goes to jail for what he’s done.
Have You No Shame?
There are a few common struggles that happen in all relationships. Of course, there are issues of jealousy or the conversation you have about prioritizing one another more. Arguably one of the worst parts of a relationship is when your partner tells you they don’t want food, and then eats all of yours.
There’s no way to make it any more clear, yet no matter how many times your partner says they’re not hungry, they always end up stealing your munchies. This boyfriend could have just taken a bite of one of his partner’s hashbrowns and it still would have been annoying. His biting all three pretty much set off a war alarm. He better watch out the next time he orders from the drive-through.
Did You Go Through Childbirth?
Divorce is hard on everyone, including the children who are involved. The first few weeks after you separate are the most difficult and should be spent healing. It turns out this person’s ex used another woman to help him heal. If you’ve been with someone for a long time and have the approval of your ex, it’s okay to introduce your new partner to your child.
6 weeks is nowhere near enough time, and even if they’d been together for years, it wouldn’t make the new partner this little girl’s mom. The mom who posted this must be an angel for not snapping at this woman. If we were her, we’d keep our daughter to ourselves as much as possible.
You Failed The Boyfriend Test First
How do you determine if your significant other is a good match for you or not? Most people see how comfortable they feel with their partner, or if they’re a good person. This boyfriend has taken a different, more misogynistic approach. This grown man didn’t know how to clean up his mess, so he decided he’d pawn it off to his new girlfriend and test her in the process.
Girlfriends aren’t maids, your messes don’t automatically become their problem when you start dating them. The only person who is a failure here is this man, and we’re sure after seeing this his girlfriend is disgusted enough to break up with him.
Way To Give Yourself Away
Have you ever been cheated on? It’s one of the worst feelings in the world, and sadly it’s becoming quite common. Cheaters are sneaky and they’ll always come up with a plan to hide their escapades from their partners. For example, this girlfriend told her boyfriend she was meeting with her mom.
Obviously, he didn’t think there’d be any need to question that, but further inspection into the photo she sent proved otherwise. If you’re going to cheat, at least be smart and avoid self-incrimination. Although we must say we’re happy for this oversight on her part so that her boyfriend can find a new honest, trustworthy girlfriend.
This Idea Is Not On Fire
Do you have any pet peeves? A lot of people hate nails on a chalkboard, or the sounds of other people chewing. Some pet peeves you can’t avoid, or ask people not to do in front of you. Of course, there are other things you shouldn’t have to remind people not to do.
We’re sure it pains this person every time they have to ask their girlfriend to not put the used matches back in the container. You’d think it’d be a lot easier for her to throw them out, and even if it wasn’t it’s just common courtesy. We know this isn’t a good enough reason to break up with someone, but it sure is annoying.
Biggest Asshole Award Goes To…
If you want to find all the worst boyfriends in the universe, look no further than Reddit. The “Am I the Asshole” thread there has some of the most vile things we’ve ever seen. Just by reading the title here, we can tell that this person is an asshole. You’re supposed to share some similar interests with your partner.
If you don’t, at least take some interest in what they tell you about. This boyfriend could have faked interest or steered the conversation toward something they were mutually interested in. Instead, he offended his girlfriend and put his relationship one step closer to an early grave. Do you think they broke up?
Avert Your Eyes Everyone!
We’ve always loved the elderly, and have never understood why others don’t. After seeing this old man, we’re starting to understand. It’s perfectly normal to be lonely in old age, and there are a lot of things you can do to combat that loneliness. Buying a sex doll that resembles a child and taking it around Walmart is not one of those ways.
This is just bizarre, and it’s even worse he has his grandson around to see all of this. If you’re going to be creepy, do it in the privacy of your own home where nobody has to know. By taking this into a public space you’re making it everyone’s business.
How Old Are You?
Some people mature in relationships and become better versions of themselves. Other people go in the opposite direction and act like children again. Sometimes relationships don’t work out, and that’s perfectly okay. All you have to do is sit down with your partner and tell them in a respectful manner that you’d like to go your separate ways. It’s never okay to break up with someone over the phone.
It’s significantly worse when you have your friend text your partner from your phone letting them know the relationship is over. Jason might just have the smallest heart known to man. He didn’t even give her a chance to respond before blocking her. We hope this girl finds someone worthy of her who treats her like a queen.
It’s What He Deserves
If you’ve ever been cheated on, you know it leaves a scar on your heart. All you want to do is move on with your life and heal from the pain. Healing is a lot more difficult when your cheating ex won’t stop messaging you. If this guy loved this girl so much, he shouldn’t have cheated, that way they would still have been together and there’d be nothing to miss.
She handled receiving these texts like a queen. She knows the saying once a cheater, always a cheater, and she’s not willing to give her ex any grace. She’s making him feel pain the way she felt pain. Maybe this will be the punch in the gut he needs to stop cheating and grow up.
This is Tinder, Not Macy’s
If you’ve tried out dating apps for even a week, you’ll notice a few different types of people. Some are there for genuine relationships or hookups, and others are there to find a present for their boyfriends. It’s not uncommon to see girls creating profiles so they can find other girls to join them and their boyfriends for a night. We can’t believe we have to say this, but you cannot give other people as a gift for Christmas.
Not only is it weird and fetishizing, but it’s just rude. No matter how much women like Lanna have pleaded for others to stop doing this, it seems they’ll never learn. If you really want to get your boyfriend a good Christmas present why don’t you check out your local mall?
I Spy A Little Green Monster
It’s normal to be a little jealous when you’re in a relationship, but it’s easy to go overboard. If your boyfriend is constantly flirting with or hanging around other girls, you can be jealous…and should probably break up with him. If your boyfriend is simply being a good person and holding a door open for another girl, that’s no reason to get upset.
It takes time to build trust in a relationship, but if you can’t build it, maybe you shouldn’t be together. Most women would be upset if their boyfriend saw a girl struggling on her own at night and left her for dead. If you’re going to get jealous over human decency, you need better control over your emotions.
Overbearing Boyfriends 101
Do you remember your first relationship? Most of them happen in middle school and don’t end up in marriage. These relationships are how you learn how you’re supposed to act in a relationship. Unfortunately, some people never learn and end up being crazy overbearing partners until the end of time.
If you’re out on the town without your partner, people might look at you and think you’re single, how else are they supposed to know you’re taken? If your partner is secure enough in your relationship, other people looking at you won’t bother them. This jealousy isn’t cute, it’s creepy and the longer this relationship goes on the worse it will get.
She Trusts Me, She Trusts Me Not
Who do you turn to when there is a problem in your relationship? If you don’t want to immediately turn to your partner, it can be nice to get advice from an outside source. This can be a therapist, a close friend, or even your mom. It can also be helpful to turn to the internet, but be mindful that you might not hear what you want.
We’re sure anyone who came across this post has immediately felt off about the fact that she snooped through her boyfriend’s phone. She said it herself that her boyfriend was being dry and generic, indicating he has no interest in this girl. This girl should have dropped it instead of taking this situation online.
He’s A Man Not A Wallet
They say when you date someone you also date their family, but it seems this girl is taking it too far. That saying just means that you have to get along with the family, not get involved in their financial matters. Money is a tricky subject to talk about, but it shouldn’t affect your relationship.
If you love someone and they love you, it shouldn’t matter how much their dad makes. What should matter is how this boyfriend treats her, and if they’re happy together. So what if the gift he got her wasn’t expensive, it’s the thought that counts. If you’re going to spend this much time complaining about your partner’s financial status, maybe you’re not right for each other.
The Girl And The Walking ATM
This may be hard news for girlfriends around the globe to digest, but not all girls who talk to your boyfriend want to be with him. It’s necessary to interact with members of the opposite sex from time to time. If this bothers you so much, maybe you aren’t mature enough to have a boyfriend.
If you’ve ever been a bartender you know you rely on tips, and it’s important to be nice to customers. It seems this bartender got fed up with girls like this complaining to her about alleged flirting. Good thing she set the record straight to get this girl off her back, but she probably wasn’t expecting this response. Why would she care so much if she too was only after his money?
Build-A-Boyfriend
How often are you with your partner? If you feel like time spent together is an issue, it’s important to feel like you can talk freely about ways you can fix it. This boyfriend didn’t get the memo. Instead of working on his communication skills, he spent his free time creating a Chatbot boyfriend to text his girlfriend. It’s normal to be busy at work and not have the time to respond to texts.
We’re sure his girlfriend would have understood if he responded once the workday was over. We think she’ll have a harder time wrapping her head around the fact that her boyfriend would rather make a chatbot than talk to her. What would you do if your partner did this to you?
You’re Not Her Owner
Some men are incapable of treating women as their equals. In case you needed an example, look no further than Mason here. Not only did he admit to this heinous statement, he did it publicly. We love dogs and would do just about anything for them, but we wouldn’t treat them any worse or better than we would our significant other.
Mason’s girlfriend might not realize this behavior isn’t normal. It might take her seeing him with the dog to put things in perspective. Still, it doesn’t sound like he’s willing to change. If you’re in a relationship like this, just know it’s not normal and you can find someone way better.
Don’t Kiss This Chef
What are your thoughts on revenge? Some people simply move on with their lives, and others dedicate a whole month of their lives to vengeance. Getting cheated on is a jarring experience we wouldn’t wish upon anyone…unless they’re a cheater. With that being said, there are limits to how far revenge can go.
In most cases, it’s probably good enough to write a strongly worded letter tearing your ex apart. If you really want, you could pull a small prank, but nothing with permanent damage. Messing with someone’s livelihood is never the answer. Not only does it bring this girl down to her cheating ex-boyfriend’s level, but it’s also very illegal.
All Aboard The Crazy Train
Have you ever felt a partner slip away from you? There can be a lot of reasons for this, and sometimes there isn’t anything you can do to get them back. Of course, if you both work on yourselves you can definitely save the relationship. If you have to fake a pregnancy to get your partner to stay, you might be more doomed than we originally thought.
Having a child is a big decision, and trapping someone to stay with you because of a fake baby is next-level crazy. We don’t even want to know the amount of planning that went into this. We hope her boyfriend finds out and gets as far away from her as possible.
Apply To Cheat Here
These days it seems more and more difficult to find a loyal person to be in a relationship with. If you’re lucky enough to find this person, never let them go. If someone gives you a reason to question their loyalty, you can start asking questions. If you have no reason to believe your boyfriend has been unfaithful, there’s no need to launch a whole campaign to get him to cheat.
This woman has stooped to a new level of crazy by recruiting a woman to try and get her boyfriend to cheat. She said it herself, he’s a good guy and hasn’t done anything to make it seem like he can’t be trusted. If you ask us, what she’s doing is just as bad as cheating.
The Truth Always Comes Out
Sometimes we feel like we care too much about other people’s feelings. Then we consider what would happen if we didn’t care at all for others, and we’re happy to have a moral compass. Otherwise, we might end up an adulterer and mess with other people’s lives.
This man was heartbroken to hear that his girlfriend of 2 years had been sleeping with a man who has been married for 5. Neither of the cheating spouses had the guts to confess, their significant others had to find out the hard way. Breaking up with someone, or getting a divorce isn’t easy, but it’s a lot better than breaking someone’s heart like this.
Could You Care Less?
What’s the cutest way you’ve been asked out? Some people will casually ask someone to be their partner over drinks, and others plan out something more elaborate. We can’t say we’ve ever been asked out over text, but there’s a first time for everything! This was posted in a thread for teenagers, so that does shed some light on the situation.
Still, we would have expected this girl to be a bit more excited. If she wasn’t interested in this guy, she shouldn’t have said yes. This poor guy is so excited, but his girlfriend seems like she couldn’t care less. Young love is an interesting phenomenon, we’re excited to see how this one ends.
Keep On Dreaming Buddy
If you take any advice we give, let it be to not procreate with someone unless you know them extremely well. Pregnancy is difficult enough with a supportive partner, but it’s almost impossible when you constantly feel torn down. This husband is truly a heinous human being to think it’s okay to say this to a pregnant woman.
Why would he say this knowing how hurtful it is? It’s bad enough that he thinks it, but it’s worse that he thinks it’s okay to say it and then defend his actions. His wife has every reason to be upset. He’s made this whole thing about him when what he should be doing is apologizing profusely.
It’s Mr. Steal Your Girl
Have you ever met someone else’s partner and thought to yourself how great they seem? It’s okay to admire someone from afar, it might even help you understand what you want in a partner. Be careful not to take things too far to where you end up taking someone else’s girlfriend.
This is rude on so many levels, but it also paints you and your partner in a bad light. What’s worse is this guy wrote an article about stealing another man’s girlfriends as if it was something to brag about. Remember you’ll lose someone how you got them, so this guy should watch out for someone coming to steal his wife.
This Is PLANE Old Wrong
We’ve heard a lot of funny reasons why people will stay with their partners. Some people are only with their partners because of their money, or status. If you’re with someone for any other reason than true love, we’re going to question you. This girl dating a guy to reduce her fear of dying in a plane crash has to be the weirdest thing we’ve ever heard.
We’re sure this guy is traumatized by his girlfriend’s passing. He needs someone loyal who truly loves him, not someone who is using him for their own gain. This is the most bizarre relationship we’ve ever heard of. Who do you think called it off in the end?
As Toxic As It Gets
Sadly, a lot of people have experienced being in a toxic relationship. It’s hard to admit when your partner isn’t good for you, and at times it can even be hard to see. This girl made it very clear that she should not be in a relationship. You’re supposed to be your partner’s better half, not their abusive stalker.
It’s normal to not talk constantly when you’re in a relationship, so we don’t see why she’s so worked up over not speaking for a measly hour. Then she goes on to criticize what he wore to the gym as if she has authority over his wardrobe. She makes an intense list of demands, but if this guy knows what’s good for him he’ll block her on everything and move on with his life.